Emerson Eggerich's book entitled Love and Respect hits a note with married couples, especially those dealing with issues that every couple face. His basic premise is that men desire respect from their wives and women want love from their spouses. Respect for men is something that is taken very seriously. Eggerich notes on p. 49 from his research that "I would rather live with a wife who respected me but did not love me than live with a wife who loved me but did not respect me." What I take this to mean is that at the core of men is a sense of being needed, of feeling like they matter in a relationship. Whereas for women, the primary call is that they be loved, not just physically, but through all the little things that are meant by love. This carries with it the idea of remembering special occasions, taking care of things around the house, doing the unnoticed things without complaining. Eggerich seems to be focused mainly in the whole book on how men can be respected b...