Freedom
and Forgiveness: A Fresh Look at the Sacrament of Reconciliation
by Father Paul Farren
Two very simple
words yet profound in their implications, freedom and forgiveness offer the
human race a way forward in dealing with the problems and conundrums of life on
Earth. Father Paul Farren in his book,
Freedom and Forgiveness takes a hard look at the Sacrament of Reconciliation
and looks at from the angle as God the Confessor. He writes, “What does God confess? He confesses his love, his forgiveness, his
gratitude, his confidence, his trust, and his belief in us” (1). We often go around seeing God as unyielding
judge who can’t wait to tally up our rights and wrongs, but fail to see the
pursuing God of love for his creation.
Father Farren
brings to the forefront a concept of beliefs surrounding God’s love that is
worth mentioning, especially for myself, steeped in Reformational Protestant
theology. Farren writes,
“Do many of us
really believe that we are terrific?
What is mean to be terrific? Does
it mean that be perfect and able to do anything? Does it mean to have no weakness? I don’t think so. Are we not terrific when we accept that we
are originally good and also that we have original sin? Our beauty comes from the whole truth about
ourselves. That whole truth involves all
that is good in us and all that is broken in us. We are a mixture of both. However, the power of our brokenness
decreases when we realize that we are the beloved of God” (20).
We err on the side of condemnation when we
focus on the brokenness and not speak of the children of God that we are, and
yet when we fail to mention the brokenness of our hearts and minds we miss part
of the truth about ourselves.
Seeking
forgiveness is a difficult matter altogether.
Farren mentions that forgiveness frees that other person from the
paralyzing force of anger and violence, seeing the other person as a wound to
be healed and not as an enemy (32). And
yet, as Jean Vanier point out, forgiveness is never a one-time deal where we
seek reconciliation and go on our merry way.
No, forgiveness is a process, sometimes life-long that is always moving
from hurt, hate, and rejection towards acceptance, love, and forgiveness.
I
cannot say how much this book was a blessing that points myself and others
towards God and others in forgiveness.
The foundation of forgiveness is God’s love for his children, even in
the death and resurrection of his Son.
This book will surely challenge you to see forgiveness through the lens
of God’s love and move you toward a life of forgiveness.
Thanks to Paraclete Press for the copy of this
book in exchange for an honest review.
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